Growing a Strong Marriage:
Leader’s Guide
God’s heart is for you to establish a Godly, healthy marriage that will glorify Him and bring you many years of joy together. Everything worthy has a cost, and this relationship takes intentional investment and time on your part. Premarital counseling with a community of believers around you can support this growth and foundational investment. Couples are encouraged to spend adequate time and focus learning about God’s design for their marriage and then take practical steps to live it out.
Growing a Strong Marriage

Leader Introduction Video
A short video introduction to the Growing a Strong Marriage booklet.
The Marriage Journey
The stages listed are meant to help the reader consider and identify common phases involved when an individual moves from singleness to marriage. It is not an exhaustive or prescriptive formula for the marriage process but can be used to raise discussion and increase perspective.


So Now You Are Engaged…
This booklet contains resources for couples in early engagement. This resource can be used by church leadership in their initial meeting with an engaged couple.
Marriage Modules
These modules are part of the biblically based series of resources that can be used to counsel and encourage premarital couples as well as strengthen and nurture discussion with couples of all ages.


Accountability Questions for Engaged Couples
Prayerfully review these questions before the Lord and with a mature, spiritual mentor or minister. They are intended to encourage a level of accountability as you strive to have a God-honoring engagement which can be a testimony to others of the work which God is doing in your lives.
Supplemental Materials

A Triangular Model Of Love

The Past’s Impact on the Present Marriage: Attachment Podcast Episode

The Past’s Impact on the Present Marriage: Emotion Podcast Episode

The Past’s Impact on the Present Marriage: Trauma Podcast Episode

Forgiveness: Part 4 – What It Is

The Christian Home
Questions to Consider When Reflecting on Your Marriage
The questions below are meant to help you discuss and evaluate a number of aspects of your marriage. They can help you assess how you are doing in each area and identify areas where you are strong or need to grow. Open, respectful communication is key to any godly, healthy relationship, especially a marital relationship.


Additional Resources for your Marriage
Click here to browse a list of recommended resources on various marriage-related topics, such as Affection & Love Languages, Communication & Conflict Resolution, Sexuality, and more.
Marriage Events
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Marriage Conferences
ACCFS hosts Cultivating Connections Marriage Conferences annually to help strengthen marriage relationships.
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Marriage Webinars
These webinars look at various aspects of enriching and strengthening the marriage relationship.

Leader’s Portion

Guide to Premarital Counseling

Individual Interview Questions at Proposal

Individual Interview Questions during Engagement

Prepare & Enrich

Abuse in Marriage Podcast Series




